Bullying
What is bullying?
Bullying can mean doing or saying something that deliberately hurts, threatens or frightens someone.
This could be name calling, spreading nasty rumours or making threats.
People are bullied for lots of different reasons. They might be picked on because they're quiet, good looking, they’re of a certain religion or because of the place they come from.
Whatever the reason, it's important to remember that bullying is not normal. No one deserves to be bullied - simple as that.
If you feel you are being bullied:
- Try to stay calm and look as confident as you can
- Be firm and clear – look them in the eyes and tell them to stop
- Get away from the situation as quickly as possible and Tell an adult what has happened straight away or if you do not feel comfortable telling an adult, talk to another pupil.
If you have been bullied:
- Tell a teacher or another adult in your school (your head of year, form tutor or learning mentor will all be able to help
- Tell your family
- If you are scared to tell a teacher or an adult on your own, ask a friend to go with you
- Keep on speaking until someone listens and does something to stop the bullying and Don’t blame yourself for what has happened.
What help can I get?
You can get help to make this stop. When you are talking to an adult about bullying be clear about:
- How often is has happened
- Who was involved
- Who saw what was happening
- Where it happened
- What you have done about it already.
You can talk to people about bullying at:
RAPP in Hull - contact (01482) 225855 or look at the website www.rapp-hull.co.uk. Also call to find out about the BOB group - a campaign and support group for children and young people experiencing bullying.
The Community Anti-bullying Project's helpline - 08009 154545
Or check out these websites or helplines:
NSPCC free 24 hour Child Protection Helpline on 0808 800 5000 – someone will listen to your worries.
Call Childline free on 08001111. Calls are free from most mobiles and will not show up on your phone bill.
www.anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk